A Hanging Heart

 My heart bleeds to love someone

Someone who can take my love
Someone who can see my depth
Someone who pushes me every moment

I crave for a personality that shakes my spine
I crave for a strength of character that I can admire

I wish I find stability but I could not
I wish I am not this wild but I am
I wish I can find someone but I can’t

I feel an urge
to go wild
to fight for someone
to rest my hanging heart

…. Budding revolutionary

Unconditional love != Unconditional acceptance

The process of emotion generation :

Anything that happens in the world will be fed into the brain with our senses and our brain perceives the information to attach a meaning to it. And depending on the personality of the individual, emotion is generated in the body

Once an emotion is generated we either accept it or reject it. If accepted depending on the level of trust we have with the surroundings and the relevance of the emotion we choose a channel to express it. Some express through words, some through actions, and some were not expressed. If we cannot accept the emotion we are not in a position to process it and with time the emotion takes control over us

What is unconditional :

Something that does not have any constraints and in this context we are talking about emotion without limitations

U need a personality to have any emotion towards anything in this world. A personality is defined by the qualities like values, beliefs, and attitudes of a person and there is a quantifiable depth to each of these

All the traits of the personality will give rise to a reaction to something that our mind perceives. That is how emotion is generated

So in a way, the possibility of unconditional love is null if you have a personality of your own. So I would say as humans we are incapable of having unconditional love whereas what we can try to achieve is unconditional acceptance which is in our hands

Unconditional acceptance:

It is the characteristic of us to accept whatever happens in this world or whatever information we perceive we accept that it is what is without judgment and we choose the best course of action that would yield the best outcome

And when we are in a place of unconditional acceptance we are in control of what actions we can take and how to process the emotion generated.

I have unconditional acceptance towards some people I like it means at every point in time, I choose to accept the action of someone and that gives me control over what I feel. And my friend when you say you love someone unconditionally it means we put effort to accept their actions unconditionally and then choose the best course of action.

We cannot have the same love towards everyone, your personality won’t allow it whereas as a person we can always have the quality of acceptance!

….. Budding revolutionary